Bad idea

A list of reasons that BVP is a bad idea:

1) He is best friends with two of my roommates.  If/when it ends, I will continue to see him on a daily basis.

2) He doesn’t like being called an adult.  Doesn’t want the responsibility.

3) He straight up told me he doesn’t want to have kids until he is at least 35…which is 6 years away. (Why do all men say 35?  It’s like their magic number.)

4) He’s in the Army.

5) He’s short.

6) See all of the above.

Despite all the above reasons that it is a bad idea, I can’t stop myself.  It’s a little like watching a train wreck in slow motion.  I think the ONLY way to handle it is to be super up-front about the potential dangers and the above reasons (maybe not the short thing).

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1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. letuswed
    Nov 06, 2011 @ 11:16:21

    based on your past experiences with such people, one might not want to get involved with someone that has so many “bad ideas” attached to him. Although if you see yourself in a long term thing with him then give it a shot. If you are just in it for some fun then maybe remind yourself that this is all you want because you are not interested in getting serious and want to limit your feelings before they do get too strong, if that makes sense? Good luck FRJ, your real mr perfect is out there somewhere 🙂

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